Facing the prospect of bringing a child into the world who is differently-abled from the majority of folks can be a scary thing. There are so many questions:
Will I be able to handle it?
How long will my child live?
What kind of financial burden is this going to be?
And then there's the question that a certain expectant mother asked of a Down Syndrome support group and the beyond-beautiful video answer that was given...
Rob Lowe isn't necessarily my first go-to person for good advice or universal truth, but there's a quote from his book, Stories I Only Tell My Friends: An Autobiography, that reminded me of something Jesus said.
After years of working with, or getting to know, actors like Jodie
Foster, Tom Hanks, Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Mike Myers, Jennifer Garner,
Sally Field, George Clooney, and many others, I can tell you that stars
are almost always the most gracious people on set. It's part of the job
and they know it. You don't survive to become a star if you have a bad
attitude.
In my twisted way of thinking, this seems to be a real-life example of the Golden Rule: "Do to others what you would have them do to you." (Matthew 7:12) And the good news is, it reaps benefits in the here and now. Truth is...Jesus' "advice" is practical, authentic, and beneficial. We would all do well, whether we accept Him as the Son of God or not, to listen to - and live out - what He had to say.
I clicked on the link for the TED Talk, My Life As A One-Man Band, because Tommy Emmanuel's guitar prowess never ceases to thrill and amaze me. I decided to share it with you, the readers of Truth is..., because there is truth in what Tommy plays and in what Tommy says.
Truth is...it would be a glorious thing indeed for each of us to find such joy and fulfillment in answering a calling; pursuing a dream that will not be denied.
Want to start feeling happier? Maybe even approach the verge of joy? Perhaps the What-Went-Well Exercise, as described in Martin E. P. Seligman's book, Flourish: A Visionary New Understanding of Happiness and Well-being, will help.
We think too much about what goes wrong and not enough about what goes
right in our lives. Of course, sometimes it makes sense to analyze bad
events so that we can learn from them and avoid them in the future.
However, people tend to spend more time thinking about what is bad in
life than is helpful. Worse, this focus on negative events sets us up
for anxiety and depression. One way to keep this from happening is to
get better at thinking about and savoring what went well.
Every night for the next week, set aside ten minutes
before you go to sleep. Write down three things that went well today
and why they went well. You may use a journal or your computer to write
about the events, but it is important that you have a physical record of
what you wrote. The three things need not be earthshaking in importance
("My husband picked up my favorite ice cream for dessert on the way
home from work today"), but they can be important ("My sister just gave
birth to a healthy baby boy").
Next to each positive event,
answer the question "Why did this happen?" For example, if you wrote
that your husband picked up ice cream, write "because my husband is
really thoughtful sometimes" or "because I remembered to call him from
work and remind him to stop by the grocery store." Or if you wrote, "My
sister just gave birth to a healthy baby boy," you might pick as the
cause "God was looking out for her" or "She did everything right during
her pregnancy."
Writing about why the positive events in your
life happened may seem awkward at first, but please stick with it for
one week. It will get easier. The odds are that you will be less
depressed, happier, and addicted to this exercise six months from now.
Truth is...you've got to accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative, latch on to the affirmative, and don't mess with Mister In-Between. (Johnny Mercer)
Every so often, I need to clean out my billfold. (This is a noteworthy event, because I generally don't have any bills [dollar bills, at least] to fold, so I'm free to stick receipts and shopping lists and who-knows-what-else in there.)
During my most recent attempt at billfold organization, I found a note I had written on the back of an offering envelope from my home church. It was a quote from the sermon preached there during my last visit. (I'm not sure if the preacher was quoting someone else, but for now I can only assume it was original with him, so I give credit and thanks to Greg Comp.) Herewith, the statement that had grabbed my attention and moved my pencil:
When Jesus asked "Who do you say I am," he wasn't concerned with his image or popularity. He was concerned about his disciples.
It's an important point. Jesus never needed to fish for compliments or ask for validation of his ego. He knew exactly who he was, where he was from, and why he came. His concern and deepest desire was for those whom he loved to know those things as well, and with that knowledge, enter into a saving relationship with his father. Truth is...what experts and critics say about Jesus is still absolutely unimportant compared to who you say he is.
Our text today, flock, is found in the gospel according to Bill Waterson...in other words, the much-missed comic strip, Calvin & Hobbes. The story opens with our hero, Calvin, gleefully attacking Susie with a water balloon.
But look...the lad has apparently seen the error of his ways.
But just as apparently, Susie doesn't believe Calvin is actually all that remorseful.
Now, while I'm pretty sure Yahweh doesn't hand out retribution as swiftly as Susie Derkins, I'm also fairly confident the Lord of the Universe isn't fooled by our "oops, I did it again" play-acting at repentance, either. Truth is...we are those who have died to sin; how can we live in it any longer? (Romans 6:2)
